He is my first and only…. *He can gut a deer but gags over changing a diaper. *He cleans the kitchen without wiping the counters. *He can improv any song in the world with the funniest lyrics you could dream up after hearing it only 1 time. *He works in construction and has improved our house more than I could have ever imagined. *He has the greenest of thumbs from summers as a teenager working in a greenhouse… naming all plants by their proper name while I struggle just to find the difference between annuals and perennials. *He likes beer and smokes (not in the house of course), I don’t do either. He was the “Bad Boy” and I was the “What in the world is she doing with him!?!?” girl……We are opposites attract in every sense and have been together for 9 years, married for 5.